18 november, 2021
If you are about to move from one place to another the first thing you need to know is that It is not easy, particularly if you are a teenager because you're passing through some emotions and changes are not easy, it depends on where are you going to move.
It also affects teenagers because it feels like losing a part of your life and you feel like leaving your friends behind and also as if you were never going to see them again, but you can also be wondering how will be your new home, these are a lot of feelings at the moment of moving, I guess the hardest thing is moving to another city or country because the most probably is that those feelings become fear because in that case you are worried about it makes true your thoughts about never see again your friends or family and maybe you are a little angry with your parents for taking you away from your home and your beloved ones, as I said before, this situation becomes a whirlpool of emotions.
I'm going to tell you a story, It isn't very dramatic because I didn't move to another country but that's how it felt because I was very young, I was like 4 years old and me and my mom used to live with my grand parents but we needed to move to another house for space reasons and also my mom's job and my main idea is based on what I felt because I felt like if we were moving far away and I wouldn't see them for years, I felt sad, angry, etc.
My point telling you this story is to explain the why of my point, so now that we are on the same channel I can continue, I've never moved to another city or country but I think it can be very challenging because it is a completely different enviroment form our perspecitve, maybe it's easier for the older people but that's not our business yet. I want to give some advices for the people those who feel scared, in first place you can look for some positive stuff of this experience, you can meet new people, maybe new friends, that different enviroment it's an area that you can explore and there's a posibility that you like it more than your previous enviroment, you must take into account that your parents didn't forget you and they were thinking on you at the moment of choosing a new living area, and a valuable advice, you are not loosing your beloved ones, your family will still be there and also if your friends are your true friends they won't forget you and they'll still keep in contact.
In summary, maybe some situations look difficult but you need to look for something positive to make it easier for you and with the time you'll get used into it. Don't forget this blog, it can be useful in any moment of your life, think about that.
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